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A spontaneous brotherhood jam and Friendsgiving

November 16, 2011

I pulled off a spontaneous dinner party and jam for seven the other night. OK, so I had help prepping and the easiest guests ever. BUT the point is that spontaneous is not in my vocabulary. It is a goal of mine to not need to plan everything, and leave room for surprises. I want to model that to the kids too. In this case a spontaneous invite to one, turned into two because Hassan’s most amazing brother Malik was in town from Los Angeles. They asked me to make sure Eddie could come, and before you know it, we had a big ole party at my house.

Brotherhood of goofy faces/ Mama C and the Boys 2011

this is serious work/ Mama C and the Boys 2011

Malik's glasses -the prize of the night/ Mama C and the Boys 2011

Marcel went around the table asking everyone what they were thankful for that night. The answers:

1. Feet to walk around and skip and dance with

2. Buses and planes that bring you to your brother

3. Everyone in the whole wide world

4. Spontaneity

5. This great dinner mommy made

6. Music

7. Having a family of choice in Portland

Have any Friendsgivings in your plans in the next few weeks? Are you inclined to the planned jam–or the spontaneous flavor? What are you looking forward to?

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Just one quick resource to share with you that the fabulous Nancy shared with me yesterday: 30 Adoption Portraits in 30 Days from Chicago Now. I haven’t read them all–but by the looks of it a real range of stories from the triad and beyond.  Come back tomorrow to meet my interview partner for the Adoption Blogger Interview Project 2011 unveiling!

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3 Comments leave one →
  1. November 16, 2011 4:55 pm

    We’re totally doing a Friendsgiving this year, this Sunday in fact. It will be our family’s Thanksgiving celebration since we don’t have any family nearby. I think it will be a great introduction to the holiday for our kids. Totally planned – I had to make sure that most of the people that have helped us keep our heads above water since becoming parents 9 months ago could make it. (Also, spontaneity is a weakness of mine as well).

    Since I never comment, I thought I’d also say thanks for continuing to write and share. You encourage me to be a better parent in a transracial family!

  2. November 16, 2011 6:15 pm

    Love the “family of choice.” I have one of those as well 😉 Loving those adoption portraits.

    • November 16, 2011 8:27 pm

      Thanks Mama! And I really, really loved your last post, but haven’t gotten over there yet to say so 🙂

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