Back Story
We are a family of three. We came together through domestic infant adoption, when Sam, my oldest was one day old, six years ago. We have an open adoption with his birth mother, Tea, a pseudonym. She is African American. So is he. I am white.
We also came together through known donor assisted conception. The donor I chose was African American- he looked like Sam as a child. Marcel is biracial and was conceived on the first try.
Soon after I gave birth I remember thinking how proud the birth mother would be of how much weight Marcel was gaining. Then I remembered that I was the birth mother.
I chose to bring both of my children into my life as a single parent. Our family and friendship support network is invincible and omni-present. My oldest brother, referred to here as Uncle, lives upstairs from us now (as of 8/2010) in the second apartment in my three family home.
This blog is devoted to issues of transracial adoptive families, multi racial families by birth and adoption, donor relationships, single parenting, racial awareness, story telling, self observation and how all of these become part of the writing life.
I write about our bravos and our blunders believing that they might serve some greater purpose then just me banging my head against the wall saying, what were you thinking?!
Im excited to meet you and read about your family
Hello, I’m pleased to meet you and follow the fun and folly as it unfolds. (That was a mouthful!)
Um, so can you put all your blog posts together in a book so I can take it with me to read it? Pretty please? My laptop is huge and I don’t care much for reading details from my Blackberry! What an interesting story you have here! An open adoption of a handsome brown boy who dons a serious you-know-you-can’t-help-but-love-me smile, and a biracial cutie with big beautiful curls that make me want to reach through the screen and play in them!
I need more details on the day-to-day, but my computer is mostly for my work, so I’ll just wait patiently for your book to get published…LOL!!
Great to e-meet you, Mama C!
Oh Cat! I love you so much and i’m welling with tears reading just this bit. thank you!!!!!!!!!
So in love with your story! What a beautiful family you have. I’ll be back often!
What a beautiful story, and what a precious family! I love your site and found my way to Moms of Hue through you as well. I just added the link for both of those to my blog. I hope you’ll find the time to come by and meet my family as well. Keep in touch.
Mamma C,
It was such a treat to meet you at Local Sprouts on Saturday. Deb just emailed me your blog. I look forward to checking it out and hope that our transracial lives continue to weave together in the future. I welcome the next opportunity.
With love,
Erica
Very interesting. Love the photos, love the stories.